Wednesday, December 03, 2008

Play it, Sam...


Your result for Are You a Jackie or a Marilyn? Or Someone Else? Mad Men-era Female Icon Quiz ...

You Are an Ingrid!

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You are an Ingrid -- "I am unique"

Ingrids have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.

How to Get Along with Me
  • * Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me.
  • * Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself.
  • * Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision.
  • * Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little.
  • * Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!

What I Like About Being an Ingrid

  • * my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level
  • * my ability to establish warm connections with people
  • * admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life
  • * my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor
  • * being unique and being seen as unique by others
  • * having aesthetic sensibilities
  • * being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me

What's Hard About Being an Ingrid

  • * experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair
  • * feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved
  • * feeling guilty when I disappoint people
  • * feeling hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me
  • * expecting too much from myself and life
  • * fearing being abandoned
  • * obsessing over resentments
  • * longing for what I don't have

Ingrids as Children Often

  • * have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original games
  • * are very sensitive
  • * feel that they don't fit in
  • * believe they are missing something that other people have
  • * attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.
  • * become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood
  • * feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents' divorce)

Ingrids as Parents

  • * help their children become who they really are
  • * support their children's creativity and originality
  • * are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings
  • * are sometimes overly critical or overly protective
  • * are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed

4 comments:

donnapiranha said...

Well, I'm jealous that you're an Ingrid. She's so pretty and classy. I'm a BETTE! Bette Davis is not one of my favorite actresses, for sure. I need to think of someone who's like her but more appealing to substitute! Ha

Lisa B. said...

Hey Janelle...or should I call you Ingrid?! I took that or a similar quiz too...I'm a Kate (Hepburn)...fun:D

Thanks for stopping by my blog! Always fun to meet someone new. I'm going to guess that you were referring to the red and green hat? Everybody seems to be liking that one! I guess I need to get out there thrifting and find me some more funkily textured old sweaters!

Mimi said...

I can totally see you as an Ingrid.

I think mine is fairly accurate, yeah. Sassy, I called her and I think that fits me too.

beverlyd said...

I'm a Doris! (as in Doris Day)



You are a Doris -- "I must help others."

Dorises are warm, concerned, nurturing, and sensitive to other people's needs.



How to Get Along with Me


* * Tell me that you appreciate me. Be specific.

* * Share fun times with me.

* * Take an interest in my problems, though I will probably try to focus on yours.

* * Let me know that I am important and special to you.

* * Be gentle if you decide to criticize me.




In Intimate Relationships


* * Reassure me that I am interesting to you.

* * Reassure me often that you love me.

* * Tell me I'm attractive and that you're glad to be seen with me.




What I Like About Being a Doris


* * being able to relate easily to people and to make friends

* * knowing what people need and being able to make their lives better

* * being generous, caring, and warm

* * being sensitive to and perceptive about others' feelings

* * being enthusiastic and fun-loving, and having a good sense of humor




What's Hard About Being a Doris


* * not being able to say no

* * having low self-esteem

* * feeling drained from overdoing for others

* * not doing things I really like to do for myself for fear of being selfish

* * criticizing myself for not feeling as loving as I think I should

* * being upset that others don't tune in to me as much as I tume in to them

* * working so hard to be tactful and considerate that I suppress my real feelings




Dorises as Children Often


* * are very sensitive to disapproval and criticism

* * try hard to please their parents by being helpful and understanding

* * are outwardly compliant

* * are popular or try to be popular with other children

* * act coy, precocious, or dramatic in order to get attention

* * are clowns and jokers (the more extroverted Dorises), or quiet and shy (the more introverted Dorises)




Dorises as Parents


* * are good listeners, love their children unconditionally, and are warm and encouraging (or suffer guilt if they aren't)

* * are often playful with their children

* * wonder: "Am I doing it right?" "Am I giving enough?" "Have I caused irreparable damage?"

* * can become fiercely protective